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Promoting Family Bonds It is upsetting for parents to see their family drift apart as their children enter the teenage years. Unfortunately, adolescence brings on behavioral changes that impact how teenagers view family. Almost overnight your child prefers time with friends more than time with the family. And when your teenager is home, staying in his room, playing on the computer, and texting friends becomes his priority. This behavior, however, is part of normal adolescent development. It is important to allow your emerging adult some space to grow as well as encourage him to develop his own identity. There are, however, many things you can do to make sure your offspring and family still remain close. Regular dinners are a great way to promote family ties. Cooking favorite meals and avoiding weekend night gatherings will ensure your changing child happily participates. Encourage your children to spend time with each other--drop them off at the movies,ecourage them to shoot baskets, or suggest they watch their favorite TV show. Have your oldest baby-sit your youngest. This not only promotes sibling bonds but also develops a sense of pride and work ethic as your teen earns his own money to pay for his own things. Despite your adolescent's desire for independence, he still wants to spend time with his family. As children grow, it becomes a parent's job to develop creative, positive, and flexible ideas that promote individual growth and family togetherness. EPS specializes in educational evaluations, psychotherapy, and educational/residential placements for troubled teens. Russell Hyken Ed.S, M.A., LPC, NCC, CEP |
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